Some background: My kids go to a school where over 90% of the student population are refugees or immigrants. We also live in a neighborhood with similar demographics.
Yesterday, during recess, my 9-year-old daughter was playing basketball with her friends. Out of nowhere, a bully came up behind her, pushed her to the ground, and when she tried to get up, the kid kicked her in the head like it was a soccer ball.
My wife picked her up from school immediately. While my daughter is physically okay, she’s now sporting scratches on her face, a swollen black eye, and obvious emotional trauma.
The school principal said he would handle the situation, but later called me and my wife separately, asking us to drop the charges. He claimed the student doesn’t “understand” what they did was wrong.
I made it clear that if the school won’t discipline the bully properly, I will escalate matters by filing charges with the police.
So, AITA for refusing to drop the charges?
Top Comment Example:
NTA. In fact, document everything your daughter’s injuries, statements from the school, and any interaction with the principal. You need these records in case the school continues to fail its duty to protect your child. By holding this child accountable, you’re not just seeking justice for your daughter but potentially preventing future incidents.
Another commenter might add:
“Also, reach out to the local school board or district office if the principal’s inaction persists. Protecting students is their responsibility, and brushing aside such a severe incident only enables more harm.”
