Elizabeth J. Moua

AITA because I'm second guessing having kids due to our opposing views on vaccinating them?

AITA because I’m second guessing having kids due to our opposing views on vaccinating them?

Having kids has always been part of the plan for me and my wife but now I’m questioning everything. I’m 35 and my wife is 32 and we’ve been trying to start a family. However a recent disagreement about vaccinations has thrown a wrench into our plans and left us at an impasse.

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AITAH for telling my dad's parents that I don't want them at my graduation when they said I wasn't their real grandson?

AITAH for telling my dad’s parents that I don’t want them at my graduation when they said I wasn’t their real grandson?

When my dad’s parents told my mom that I wasn’t their “real” grandson it felt like the floor dropped out from under me. They said it in the middle of an argument unprovoked and in front of me and my younger brother. The words have stayed with me ever since and now months later I’ve made a decision they aren’t happy about.

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AITAH for saying my son’s gf uses race for free babysitting?

AITAH for saying my son’s gf uses race for free babysitting?

I never expected to find myself in this situation but it’s been weighing on me and I need an outside perspective. I’m a 55-year-old Black woman and my late husband was Black too. My son who is 24 and living on his own started dating Kayla a 25-year-old woman over the summer. Kayla has a 4-year-old son from a previous relationship with a Black man.

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AITAH for exposing my mom’s boyfriend for making advances towards me, causing them to break up?

AITAH for exposing my mom’s boyfriend for making advances towards me, causing them to break up?

I never thought I’d find myself in a situation like this but here I am trying to make sense of it all. My mom (43F) has been dating a man named Dave (45M) for about a year. At first he seemed nice enough if a little distant. I didn’t think much of him but over time something about his behavior began to feel off.

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AITA for wanting to split inheritance money equally between my kids when my wife wants to prioritize one?

AITA for wanting to split inheritance money equally between my kids when my wife wants to prioritize one?

I recently came into some money and now face a difficult decision that has created tension in my family. My wife and I have three children and while I believe the fairest way to handle the money is to split it equally among them my wife feels differently. She wants to give a larger portion to one child which has sparked a heated debate between us.

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AITAH for saying a $2500 Hoodie that was gifted to my son was "the dumbest thing I've ever heard of"

AITAH for saying a $2500 Hoodie that was gifted to my son was “the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard of”

When my son unboxed a Gucci hoodie his face lit up with surprise and excitement. I’d heard of Gucci of course and figured the sweater was probably around $500. A lot for a sweater but nothing too shocking. I kept my thoughts to myself not wanting to dampen his happiness in front of everyone.

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