Elizabeth J. Moua

AITA for refusing to give my mother access to my savings account even though she says it's for "family emergencies"?

AITA for refusing to give my mother access to my savings account even though she says it’s for “family emergencies”?

I’ve worked hard since I was 18 to build a solid financial foundation. Over the years, I’ve saved diligently, creating an emergency fund and slowly working toward a down payment for a house. My family has always known I’m careful with money, but recently, that has become a source of tension with my mom.

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AITAH If I Choose to Go My PhD Graduation Instead of My Sister’s Wedding?

AITAH If I Choose to Go My PhD Graduation Instead of My Sister’s Wedding?

For the past four years, I’ve worked tirelessly toward earning my PhD. The idea of walking across that stage has been a beacon of hope, motivating me through countless long nights and grueling research deadlines. It’s a moment I’ve envisioned for years, one I hoped to celebrate with my family and loved ones. But now, my sister’s wedding plans have thrown everything into question.

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AITAH for refusing to let my brother-in-law move into our guesthouse after he screwed us over financially?

AITAH for refusing to let my brother-in-law move into our guesthouse after he screwed us over financially?

My husband and I own a small guesthouse on our property which we rent out for additional income. A few years back, my brother-in-law (my husband’s brother) asked to borrow $10,000 from us to settle some debts. He was in a tight spot, so we agreed to lend him the money, expecting repayment within a year.

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