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How to I politely decline going over to MIL's today?

How to I politely decline going over to MIL’s today? R/Mother In Laws From Hell

I read this story on Reddit about a woman struggling to decline an invitation to her mother-in-law’s second Christmas celebration. The MIL had already celebrated Christmas at the woman’s house earlier, but now she’s hosting her own “Christmas” with stockings, gifts, a holiday dinner, and a birthday cake for Jesus. This follow-up celebration feels like

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Hate the nickname and constant check in with MIL regarding my son

Hate the nickname and constant check in with MIL regarding my son

I read this story on Reddit about a new mom who’s frustrated with her mother-in-law’s constant texts and a nickname she hates. Every day, the MIL messages her asking, “How is my Gordito?” referring to her 5-month-old son. While the nickname “Gordito” (which means “chubby” or “plump” in Spanish) isn’t inherently an insult in some

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MIL wants to be notified when I go into labor so she can be there when the baby is born.

MIL wants to be notified when I go into labor so she can be there when the baby is born.

I read this story on Reddit about a woman grappling with how to handle her MIL and extended family’s expectations around the birth of her first child. Married for just over a year, she and her husband are expecting their baby in two months. The MIL has made it clear that she wants to be

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My mother in law wants 50/50 custody of my newborn after birth

My mother in law wants 50/50 custody of my newborn after birth. R/Mother In Laws From Hell

I read this story on Reddit about a woman grappling with her stepmother-in-law’s difficult and toxic behavior. Despite trying to keep peace and maintain hope, every interaction with her leaves the woman feeling upset and drained. During a recent holiday gathering, the stepmother-in-law made derogatory comments about the woman’s country of origin, mocked the size

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AITA for leaving my dad’s birthday dinner after overhearing my sister’s comment about my miscarriage?

AITA for leaving my dad’s birthday dinner after overhearing my sister’s comment about my miscarriage?

A few months ago, me (28f) and my sister “Eva” (33f) realized that we were both pregnant (I’d say she was about 6 weeks further than I was). She’s been struggling with infertility, so we were all happy for her. I have an older son (2 m) with my husband (32 m). Sadly, a couple

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AITAH for not bringing my wallet to dinner with my friend to teach her a lesson?

AITAH for not bringing my wallet to dinner with my friend to teach her a lesson?

Last night, I (28, F) went to dinner with a close friend and decided to leave my wallet at home. She has a habit of “forgetting” hers when we go out, leaving me to foot the bill. I thought this time, if she conveniently forgot again, it might finally push her to take responsibility. I

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AITA for removing a crying 8-year-old that is not getting her way from the game table?

I have three grandkids, ages 3, 8, and 10, that recently visited. They are all great kids that are well adjusted and generally well behaved, but the middle one has a bossy temperament and a manipulative streak. The eight-year-old will start crying if she does not get her way, and her parent’s technique is to

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AITA for refusing to watch my neighbor’s kid before school because she kept nagging me?

AITA for refusing to watch my neighbor’s kid before school because she kept nagging me?

I am a stay-at-home mom with two kids, “John” M10 and “Ava” F8. My neighbor “Zoe” F42 works full time and asked at the beginning of the school year if she could drop off her daughter “Sue” F9 an hour before school started twice a week. I agreed and was happy to help out a

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AITA for booking a hotel in the same area as my son and dil’s trip that we didn’t get to go on?

AITA for booking a hotel in the same area as my son and Dil’s trip that we didn’t get to go on?

My son (30) and his fiancée(28) of six years go on a family trip every year with her extended family. From what my son tells me, they travel to different locations and rent an Airbnb that accommodates the 30 people who attend. For the past three years, they’ve gone during the holidays, and as a

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