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Update 2: AITAH for telling my 19f daughter she will have to move out of my house if I get divorced because of her lies after after her stepdad saw her naked. R/update_2_aitah_for_telling_my_19f_daughter_she

Hi everyone, It’s been a while, and I’ve seen many people asking for updates. I wasn’t ready to share before, as this whole situation has left me devastated. I’ve been crying myself to sleep every night, and I feel like my world has completely fallen apart. I’ve lost my husband, my family and my daughter.

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AITAH for walking out when my girlfriend’s dad tried to test me like some kind of job interview?r/aitah_for_walking_out_when_my_girlfriends_dad/

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So, I (30M) have been seeing Maya (27F) for a little over two years now. Things are good between us but her dad he is not exactly my biggest fan. He is one of those people who thinks he needs to “test” me to see if I am worthy of his daughter and honestly, it’s

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AITA for refusing to share my homemade meals with my roommate’s boyfriend?R/aita_for_refusing_to_share_my_homemade_meals_with/

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So, I (25F) have a roommate, Sara (26F), who recently started dating this guy, Tom (28M). I cook most of my meals from scratch because I enjoy it, and it’s cheaper and healthier for me. Sara’s fine with it and occasionally I’ll share leftovers with her when I make extra, no problem. Lately, though, Tom

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AITAH for calling off my wedding after my fiancé’s surprise “gift”? R/aitah_for_calling_off_my_wedding_after_my_fiancés/?

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So, I (30F) have been engaged to my fiancé Mark (32M) for about a year, and we’ve been together for three years. I’ve always known Mark to be a bit unconventional, he is very creative and sometimes takes things a little too far in the name of surprise or excitement. Most of the time, I

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AITA for not attending Christmas dinner with my family because it’s at 1 o’clock in the afternoon? R/aita_for_not_attending_christmas_dinner_with_my/

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For context, every year I buy the turkey for £130, dry brine it for two days, cook it, take it to my mum’s house, and then prepare all the trimmings while I’m there. This involves many hours of work, as you can imagine, and requires me to wake up at 7 AM to get all

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AITA for kicking my fiancée out of the house after finding out she lied about being infertile? R/aita_for_kicking_my_fiancée_out_of_the_house/

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My fiancée (30F) and I (33M) have been together for four years and engaged for one. Early in our relationship, she told me she was infertile due to a medical condition she had in her teens. I was fine with this, as I have never really wanted biological kids and figured we could explore adoption

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AITA for taking my biological nieces on days out and excluding my adopted nephew?R/aita_for_taking_my_biological_nieces_on_days_out/

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I (42F) have two nieces, Flo (14F) and Ivy (11F), and a nephew, Ryan (10M), through my brother Tom (46M) and SIL Kate (45F). Flo and Ivy are their biological daughters, while Ryan was adopted two years ago after being fostered by them for three years. I also have a daughter, Ava (12F). We live

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AITA for confusing my baby sister into believing I’m her mom?R/aita_for_confusing_my_baby_sister_into_believing/

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I am 16F and my dad passed away last year. My parents were divorced before that, and they used to split custody. My mom has been remarried to my stepdad for years. My baby sister recently turned 1 and my mom is 5 months pregnant with a baby boy. The issue started when my sister

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AITA for taking my biological nieces on days out and excluding my adopted nephew?r/AmItheAsshole

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Affirm the Purpose of the Trip: Clearly restate that the trip was always meant as a special girls’ outing, planned and paid for in advance, and focused on activities Ryan might not enjoy or tolerate well due to his sensory needs. Affirm the Purpose of the Trip: Clearly restate that the trip was always meant

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Finally choosing peace. No contact with MIL r/ motherinlawsfromhell

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After years of enduring repeated rudeness, exclusion, and boundary violations, my partner and I have made the difficult but necessary decision to go no contact with my mother-in-law (MIL). This choice wasn’t made lightly. Especially ,with the holidays approaching, but prioritizing our well-being and peace has become essential. From the beginning, setting boundaries as a

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