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AITA for refusing to give my mother access to my savings account even though she says it's for "family emergencies"?

AITA for refusing to give my mother access to my savings account even though she says it’s for “family emergencies”?

I’ve worked hard since I was 18 to build a solid financial foundation. Over the years, I’ve saved diligently, creating an emergency fund and slowly working toward a down payment for a house. My family has always known I’m careful with money, but recently, that has become a source of tension with my mom.

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AITA for getting engaged after my brother’s wedding?

AITA for getting engaged after my brother’s wedding?

EDIT: paraphrased some direct quotes and removed some potentially identifiable info. My brother and his now wife got married three days ago. A very small destination ceremony under 15 people total. My now fiancé and I extended our trip after everyone went home and spent a couple of days exploring the Grand Canyon, a couple

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AITAH for not wanting my wife and mother-in-law to keep reminding me to “keep my voice down” before every family gathering?

AITAH for not wanting my wife and mother-in-law to keep reminding me to “keep my voice down” before every family gathering?

I (45M) don’t have living parents, so all family gatherings are with my wife’s (36F) family. Early on, I often felt like an outsider at these events. Her father made it clear he didn’t think I was “good enough for his daughter,” and her mother and I had a strained relationship due to our differing

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AITA for refusing to attend Christmas dinner at my husband's childhood home after years of being treated as an outsider?

AITA for refusing to attend Christmas dinner at my husband’s childhood home after years of being treated as an outsider?

My husband’s mother passed away, and his father remarried five years ago, changing the dynamics of what was once a warm family home into something unwelcoming. I’ve consistently felt like an outsider, evidenced by various acts of unequal treatment.

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