Relationship

AITA for telling my father and his girlfriend that the gift she got me was creepy and invasive?

AITA for telling my father and his girlfriend that the gift she got me was creepy and invasive?

As I prepare for the arrival of my first child in February, I’ve been clear about one thing: my birth experience will be private. This is the first grandchild on both sides of the family, so excitement is high, but I’ve set firm boundaries. Despite this, my father’s girlfriend, Lena, managed to turn those boundaries into a source of tension.

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AITA for refusing to let my brother’s fiancée wear white to my wedding?

So, I (27F) am getting married in March to my fiancé (28M). We’re keeping the wedding fairly traditional, and I’ve been looking forward to this day for years. Here’s where the problem comes in: my brother’s fiancée, Emily (25F), approached me at our family Christmas gathering and casually mentioned that she found the “perfect dress”

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WIBTA if I told someone the truth about why they were being excluded from group activities?

WIBTA if I told someone the truth about why they were being excluded from group activities?

A few years ago, I met my partner’s cousin (on his dad’s side) for the first time when he came to visit our city (we live on different coasts). I quickly realized this was the type of person I would never hang out with normally, but I was cordial. My partner acknowledged, “Yeah, Fred’s a

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AITAH for calling my wife selfish and inconsiderate after she asked me when I would move on from my sister’s death?

AITAH for calling my wife selfish and inconsiderate after she asked me when I would move on from my sister’s death?

My wife and I have been married for 3 years and together for 7. A couple of months ago, my younger sister passed away in an accident, and I still haven’t been able to completely process it. My older sister (Maddie) and I were really close growing up, and our sister’s passing has really affected

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AITA for Refusing to Co-Sign My Sister’s Mortgage After My Parents Went Behind My Back?

AITA for Refusing to Co-Sign My Sister’s Mortgage After My Parents Went Behind My Back?

I (28F) have been busting my butt for years to save for my own house. I work in software, so I make decent money, but it still takes forever to build up a good down payment. Meanwhile, my younger sister (25F) is in grad school with barely any credit. Our parents (both mid-50s) found a

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AITAH for not wanting my wife and mother-in-law to keep reminding me to “keep my voice down” before every family gathering?

AITAH for not wanting my wife and mother-in-law to keep reminding me to “keep my voice down” before every family gathering?

I (45M) don’t have living parents, so all family gatherings are with my wife’s (36F) family. Early on, I often felt like an outsider at these events. Her father made it clear he didn’t think I was “good enough for his daughter,” and her mother and I had a strained relationship due to our differing

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AITA for telling my mother in law not to place her own gift tags on Christmas presents i ordered for MY children ?

AITA for telling my mother-in-law not to place her own gift tags on Christmas presents I ordered for my children?

So basically, I had ordered all my children’s christmas presents online to be sent to my in-laws home. As we are spending christmas there this year, my mother-in-law said that she didn’t mind wrapping them all up before we all got there. We arrived here yesterday and all was well. After the kids got settled

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