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AITA for refusing to give my mother access to my savings account even though she says it's for "family emergencies"?

AITA for refusing to give my mother access to my savings account even though she says it’s for “family emergencies”?

I’ve worked hard since I was 18 to build a solid financial foundation. Over the years, I’ve saved diligently, creating an emergency fund and slowly working toward a down payment for a house. My family has always known I’m careful with money, but recently, that has become a source of tension with my mom.

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AITAH If I Choose to Go My PhD Graduation Instead of My Sister’s Wedding?

AITAH If I Choose to Go My PhD Graduation Instead of My Sister’s Wedding?

For the past four years, I’ve worked tirelessly toward earning my PhD. The idea of walking across that stage has been a beacon of hope, motivating me through countless long nights and grueling research deadlines. It’s a moment I’ve envisioned for years, one I hoped to celebrate with my family and loved ones. But now, my sister’s wedding plans have thrown everything into question.

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AITAH for refusing to let my brother-in-law move into our guesthouse after he screwed us over financially?

AITAH for refusing to let my brother-in-law move into our guesthouse after he screwed us over financially?

My husband and I own a small guesthouse on our property which we rent out for additional income. A few years back, my brother-in-law (my husband’s brother) asked to borrow $10,000 from us to settle some debts. He was in a tight spot, so we agreed to lend him the money, expecting repayment within a year.

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AITAH for not wanting to babysit my brother’s kid anymore because of how his wife treats me?

AITAH for not wanting to babysit my brother’s kid anymore because of how his wife treats me?

My (28F) brother (30M) and his wife (27F) had their first baby a year ago. I’ve been helping them out by babysitting for free a couple of days a week since they can’t afford daycare, and I work from home. I genuinely love my niece, and I was happy to help out at first. However,

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AITA for pulling over and kicking my mom out of the car after she slapped me while I was driving?

AITA for pulling over and kicking my mom out of the car after she slapped me while I was driving?

Earlier today, I (21M) was driving my mother (39F) and my younger brother (5M) to run some errands. My mother has a tendency to give unclear directions while I’m driving. Instead of saying “turn left” or “go straight,” she’ll point or use vague phrases like “that way,” which always stresses me out because I need to concentrate on the road.

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AITA for getting engaged after my brother’s wedding?

AITA for getting engaged after my brother’s wedding?

EDIT: paraphrased some direct quotes and removed some potentially identifiable info. My brother and his now wife got married three days ago. A very small destination ceremony under 15 people total. My now fiancé and I extended our trip after everyone went home and spent a couple of days exploring the Grand Canyon, a couple

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AITA for refusing to give up my front-row spot at a concert to someone claiming to be disabled?

AITA for refusing to give up my front-row spot at a concert to someone claiming to be disabled?

A couple of weeks ago, I traveled to another country to see an artist I’ve been a fan of for six years. This was a once-in-a-lifetime experience for me, and I’d been waiting months for it. I sacrificed a lot financially and mentally to make it happen. Since it was my first (and probably only) time

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